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πŸ’« Manifesting the Life You Deserve πŸ’«

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πŸ’« Manifesting the Life You Deserve πŸ’« XOXO, Alexandra Let’s be honest — we all want the life . Dream job. Soulmate. Jet-setting freedom. A fat, happy bank account. But how do we actually get there? Manifestation isn’t magic. It’s mindset, energy, and intention — and you, babe, are powerful enough to call in anything. 🌸 Step 1: Get Crystal Clear No more vague goals like “I want more money.” Be bold: “I attract $10K+ months doing what I love.” Write it. Speak it. Believe it. Claim it. πŸ’– Step 2: Feel It Like It’s Already Yours How would you show up if it was already done? What would she wear? How would she speak? Start being her. Now. 🌷 Step 3: Align Your Actions The universe meets you halfway. Apply. Launch. Pitch. Post. Book the trip. Text back. Take the leap. Do the thing. πŸŒ™ Step 4: Surrender the Timeline You've asked. You’ve aligned. Now breathe. Let go. Trust...

Hot Girl Habits: 7 Little Things That Instantly Boost Your Mood (and Your Main Character Energy)

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Hot Girl Habits: 7 Little Things That Instantly Boost Your Mood Let’s be honest—some days we wake up feeling like BeyoncΓ©. Other days… we wake up feeling like a soggy croqueta πŸ₯². But the truth is, your vibe can shift real quick with the tiniest of tweaks. Here are 7 little “hot girl habits” I swear by when I need to feel ✨ unstoppable ✨ again (even if I’m just going to Publix for oat milk and pastelitos): πŸ’„ 1. Spritz Your Signature Scent That one perfume that makes you feel like you’re booked, busy, and maybe a little bit mysterious? Spray it—even if you’re home all day. Trust me. πŸ₯€ 2. Romanticize Your Morning Drink Whether it’s iced cafecito in a cute glass or a glowing green juice, add a straw, a garnish, something aesthetic. Main character energy is in the details. πŸ’ƒ 3. Get Dressed (Even Just a Little) Throw on a cute linen two-piece, gold hoops, and your fave sunnies—even if you’re not going anywhere. You deserve to look good for you . πŸ“± 4. ...

Confessions of a Recovering Over-Packer: My New Rule for Every Trip

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✨ Confessions of a Recovering Over-Packer: My New Rule for Every Trip ✨ Spoiler: I don’t need 11 outfits for a weekend getaway… but tell that to my past self. Okay, let’s talk travel chaos for a sec. Why is it that no matter how many times I pack a suitcase, I still end up sitting on it, praying it zips, and bringing 11 pairs of shoes for a 3-day trip ? Like, ma’am… are we filming a Netflix fashion series or going to Tulum? But here’s the thing: I’ve cracked the code. Well… kind of. πŸ’Ό The Rule That Changed Everything I call it the “3+1 Rule” : 3 outfits you feel amazing in 1 wildcard look (for when the vibe suddenly becomes rooftop cocktails at sunset) 1 pair of sandals, 1 pair of sneakers, 1 “don’t-judge-me-I’m-cute” heel No more than 1 bag. Yes. One. Bag. 😭 Once I started packing less, I noticed something wild: I had more fun. I wasn’t stressing outfits, overthinking every look, or trying to steam 6 dresses in a hote...

Main Character Energy: How I Romanticize My Life on a Random Tuesday ✨

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How I Romanticize My Life on a Random Tuesday ✨ Babe, I don’t care what the calendar says—every day has ✨ main character potential ✨ . You don’t need a trip to Paris or a yacht party in Key Largo (although yes, please) to feel like that girl . Sometimes it’s just a cafecito in your favorite mug or blasting Bad Bunny on your way to Target. It’s the energy . So here’s how I make my Tuesdays feel like rom-com montages: 🌀 Morning Romanticism I open my blinds, light a coconut candle, and pretend I’m living in a Pinterest board. No phone for 30 minutes, just vibes and vibing. 🎢 Curated Soundtrack I make playlists for moods, not genres. Today? "Latina Main Character in Her Healing Era.” Tomorrow might be French jazz, who knows. πŸ₯₯ My Cafecito Ritual I make it fancy. Frothy oatmilk, cinnamon dust, glass cup. I take a sip and stare into the distance like I'm about to start a plotline. ...

Monday Reset: Because we are not doing chaos this week

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Monday Reset Monday Reset Because We’re Not Doing Chaos This Week ✨ Let’s talk about Mondays, babe. You either wake up ready to take on the world… or you wake up asking yourself how is it Monday again and do I really need this job 😩. (Spoiler: same.) But here’s my new mindset: Mondays don’t have to suck. They’re not the enemy. They’re the ✨ launch pad ✨ for the energy you carry all week. And I don’t know about you, but I’m done letting Monday steal my sparkle. So here’s how I’m hitting reset—Alexandra style: πŸ›️ No Phone Until After I Romanticize My Morning I open the windows, make my cafecito, light my candle (even if it’s 89 degrees in Miami), and play a bossa nova playlist like I live in a Pinterest board. πŸ““ Mini “That Girl” Planning Sesh Not a rigid to-do list. Just 3 priorities for the day + one thing I’m looking forward to (even ...

Weekend Vibes Only: My Guide to Doing the Most (or Absolutely Nothing)

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Weekend Vibes Only My Guide to Doing the Most (or Absolutely Nothing) Let’s talk weekends, babe. Some weekends I’m glam and glowing on a boat in Key Largo with a spicy marg in hand 🌴, and others I’m horizontal in bed rewatching Gossip Girl for the third time, wearing the same oversized tee from Thursday. Both are valid. Both are iconic. Both are me. We’re not here to shame your “do nothing” days—or your “do the most” ones either. Because honestly? The weekend energy shift hits different when you decide what it looks like. ☀️ If I’m Feeling Social: Boat > Brunch: Catch me on the water, SPF 50 and all, vibing with my girls, reggaeton blasting, and snacks on deck. Fit check = linen everything: Light, breathable, and effortless. Bonus points if it blows in the wind like a music video moment. Sunset walk in SoBe: A little people-watching, a little pastel sky magic, and a whole lot of main character energy. 🧘‍♀️...

✨ Hot Girl Habits: The Glow-Up You Don’t See on Instagram

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✨ Hot Girl Habits: The Glow-Up You Don’t See on Instagram Let’s be honest… we all love a good glow-up moment. But real talk? The most powerful glow-ups don’t happen on vacation or during golden hour selfies. They happen at 7AM when you choose to get up and show up—even if your hair's in a claw clip and your to-do list looks like a CVS receipt πŸ˜…. Here’s the truth no one tells you: “Hot girl” energy is an inside job. It’s not about perfection—it’s about habits . Tiny shifts that make you feel like you again—but better. πŸ’… Habits I Swear By (That Actually Changed My Life) Romanticize EVERYTHING From your cafecito to your commute—act like you're the main character in a Netflix series. Grab your linen set, throw on hoops, and strut like you're walking a runway (even if it's just Publix, okay?). Talk to Yourself Like You’re THAT Girl Self-love isn’t just bubble baths and spa days. It’s also calling yourself out gently and remi...