Weekend Vibes Only: My Guide to Doing the Most (or Absolutely Nothing)

Weekend Vibes Only

My Guide to Doing the Most (or Absolutely Nothing)

Let’s talk weekends, babe.

Some weekends I’m glam and glowing on a boat in Key Largo with a spicy marg in hand 🌴, and others I’m horizontal in bed rewatching Gossip Girl for the third time, wearing the same oversized tee from Thursday.

Both are valid. Both are iconic. Both are me.

We’re not here to shame your “do nothing” days—or your “do the most” ones either. Because honestly? The weekend energy shift hits different when you decide what it looks like.

☀️ If I’m Feeling Social:

  • Boat > Brunch: Catch me on the water, SPF 50 and all, vibing with my girls, reggaeton blasting, and snacks on deck.
  • Fit check = linen everything: Light, breathable, and effortless. Bonus points if it blows in the wind like a music video moment.
  • Sunset walk in SoBe: A little people-watching, a little pastel sky magic, and a whole lot of main character energy.

🧘‍♀️ If I’m in Self-Care Mode:

  • Slow mornings: Coffee, silence, and zero notifications.
  • Mini clean = major reset: Reorganizing my bathroom shelves makes me feel like I have my entire life together (even if I don’t).
  • Face mask + fruit plate = spa life: Add a good playlist and some manifestation journaling? Mood = restored.

🎶 What’s On My Weekend Playlist:

  • “Despechá” – Rosalía
  • “No One Else” – Summer Walker
  • “Good Days” – SZA
  • Anything Bad Bunny because... obvio.

💌 Before You Go...

Weekends aren’t about doing everything. They’re about doing what feels good. Whether that’s dancing ‘til 2AM or being in bed by 9 with a heating pad and a chamomile tea—you’re still that girl.

Tell me in the comments or DM me on Instagram @alexandrallove:
What’s your dream weekend vibe right now?
Boujee brunch? Beach bum? Solo staycation?

Whatever it is… do it with intention, do it with flavor, and do it for you.

Until next time…
XOXO,
Alexandra

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