Main Character Energy: How I Romanticize My Life on a Random Tuesday ✨



How I Romanticize My Life on a Random Tuesday ✨

Babe, I don’t care what the calendar says—every day has ✨ main character potential ✨.

You don’t need a trip to Paris or a yacht party in Key Largo (although yes, please) to feel like that girl. Sometimes it’s just a cafecito in your favorite mug or blasting Bad Bunny on your way to Target. It’s the energy.

So here’s how I make my Tuesdays feel like rom-com montages:

  • 🌤 Morning Romanticism I open my blinds, light a coconut candle, and pretend I’m living in a Pinterest board. No phone for 30 minutes, just vibes and vibing.
  • 🎶 Curated Soundtrack I make playlists for moods, not genres. Today? "Latina Main Character in Her Healing Era.” Tomorrow might be French jazz, who knows.
  • 🥥 My Cafecito Ritual I make it fancy. Frothy oatmilk, cinnamon dust, glass cup. I take a sip and stare into the distance like I'm about to start a plotline.
  • 💻 Work With a Twist Even when I’m answering emails or scheduling posts, I light a candle and wear a linen set. Feeling put together = being put together.
  • 💅 Errandcore Aesthetic Yes I’m going to Publix. No I don’t need to wear mascara. But am I putting on gloss and gold hoops and walking like the aisle is my runway? Always.
Romanticizing your life isn’t about faking it. It’s about feeling it. Every iced matcha moment, every FaceTime call, every mini win… they all deserve their own scene.

So whether your vibe is soft girl, spicy girl, or sleepy girl today, just know this: you’re the main character and the universe is your set designer.

Now tell me, how are YOU romanticizing your week? 💌 Message me on Insta @Alexandrallove or drop it in the comments—I wanna hear it all 🫶

XOXO, Alexandra

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