XOXO, Alexandrallove

Hot Girl Habits: 7 Little Things That Instantly Boost Your Mood Let’s be honest—some days we wake up feeling like Beyoncé. Other days… we wake up feeling like a soggy croqueta 🥲. But the truth is, your vibe can shift real quick with the tiniest of tweaks. Here are 7 little “hot girl habits” I swear by when I need to feel ✨ unstoppable ✨ again (even if I’m just going to Publix for oat milk and pastelitos): 💄 1. Spritz Your Signature Scent That one perfume that makes you feel like you’re booked, busy, and maybe a little bit mysterious? Spray it—even if you’re home all day. Trust me. 🥤 2. Romanticize Your Morning Drink Whether it’s iced cafecito in a cute glass or a glowing green juice, add a straw, a garnish, something aesthetic. Main character energy is in the details. 💃 3. Get Dressed (Even Just a Little) Throw on a cute linen two-piece, gold hoops, and your fave sunnies—even if you’re not going anywhere. You deserve to look good for you . 📱 4. ...

✨ Confessions of a Recovering Over-Packer: My New Rule for Every Trip ✨ Spoiler: I don’t need 11 outfits for a weekend getaway… but tell that to my past self. Okay, let’s talk travel chaos for a sec. Why is it that no matter how many times I pack a suitcase, I still end up sitting on it, praying it zips, and bringing 11 pairs of shoes for a 3-day trip ? Like, ma’am… are we filming a Netflix fashion series or going to Tulum? But here’s the thing: I’ve cracked the code. Well… kind of. 💼 The Rule That Changed Everything I call it the “3+1 Rule” : 3 outfits you feel amazing in 1 wildcard look (for when the vibe suddenly becomes rooftop cocktails at sunset) 1 pair of sandals, 1 pair of sneakers, 1 “don’t-judge-me-I’m-cute” heel No more than 1 bag. Yes. One. Bag. 😭 Once I started packing less, I noticed something wild: I had more fun. I wasn’t stressing outfits, overthinking every look, or trying to steam 6 dresses in a hote...

How I Romanticize My Life on a Random Tuesday ✨ Babe, I don’t care what the calendar says—every day has ✨ main character potential ✨ . You don’t need a trip to Paris or a yacht party in Key Largo (although yes, please) to feel like that girl . Sometimes it’s just a cafecito in your favorite mug or blasting Bad Bunny on your way to Target. It’s the energy . So here’s how I make my Tuesdays feel like rom-com montages: 🌤 Morning Romanticism I open my blinds, light a coconut candle, and pretend I’m living in a Pinterest board. No phone for 30 minutes, just vibes and vibing. 🎶 Curated Soundtrack I make playlists for moods, not genres. Today? "Latina Main Character in Her Healing Era.” Tomorrow might be French jazz, who knows. 🥥 My Cafecito Ritual I make it fancy. Frothy oatmilk, cinnamon dust, glass cup. I take a sip and stare into the distance like I'm about to start a plotline. ...

Monday Reset Monday Reset Because We’re Not Doing Chaos This Week ✨ Let’s talk about Mondays, babe. You either wake up ready to take on the world… or you wake up asking yourself how is it Monday again and do I really need this job 😩. (Spoiler: same.) But here’s my new mindset: Mondays don’t have to suck. They’re not the enemy. They’re the ✨ launch pad ✨ for the energy you carry all week. And I don’t know about you, but I’m done letting Monday steal my sparkle. So here’s how I’m hitting reset—Alexandra style: 🛏️ No Phone Until After I Romanticize My Morning I open the windows, make my cafecito, light my candle (even if it’s 89 degrees in Miami), and play a bossa nova playlist like I live in a Pinterest board. 📓 Mini “That Girl” Planning Sesh Not a rigid to-do list. Just 3 priorities for the day + one thing I’m looking forward to (even ...

Weekend Vibes Only My Guide to Doing the Most (or Absolutely Nothing) Let’s talk weekends, babe. Some weekends I’m glam and glowing on a boat in Key Largo with a spicy marg in hand 🌴, and others I’m horizontal in bed rewatching Gossip Girl for the third time, wearing the same oversized tee from Thursday. Both are valid. Both are iconic. Both are me. We’re not here to shame your “do nothing” days—or your “do the most” ones either. Because honestly? The weekend energy shift hits different when you decide what it looks like. ☀️ If I’m Feeling Social: Boat > Brunch: Catch me on the water, SPF 50 and all, vibing with my girls, reggaeton blasting, and snacks on deck. Fit check = linen everything: Light, breathable, and effortless. Bonus points if it blows in the wind like a music video moment. Sunset walk in SoBe: A little people-watching, a little pastel sky magic, and a whole lot of main character energy. 🧘‍♀️...

✨ Hot Girl Habits: The Glow-Up You Don’t See on Instagram Let’s be honest… we all love a good glow-up moment. But real talk? The most powerful glow-ups don’t happen on vacation or during golden hour selfies. They happen at 7AM when you choose to get up and show up—even if your hair's in a claw clip and your to-do list looks like a CVS receipt 😅. Here’s the truth no one tells you: “Hot girl” energy is an inside job. It’s not about perfection—it’s about habits . Tiny shifts that make you feel like you again—but better. 💅 Habits I Swear By (That Actually Changed My Life) Romanticize EVERYTHING From your cafecito to your commute—act like you're the main character in a Netflix series. Grab your linen set, throw on hoops, and strut like you're walking a runway (even if it's just Publix, okay?). Talk to Yourself Like You’re THAT Girl Self-love isn’t just bubble baths and spa days. It’s also calling yourself out gently and remi...

XOXO, Alexandra is back and trust me, we’re entering an era. Not the “hard launch, ring on finger” type of era… I’m talking the soft launch era . You’ve seen it. You’ve probably done it. Maybe a shadowy arm in a brunch story, a second wine glass across the table, or a mysterious “he said this 🤭” caption. And listen, I’m not mad at it — I’m obsessed. What Even *Is* a Soft Launch? For those living under a digital rock, a soft launch is when you tease a relationship (or a lifestyle switch, or even a product) without fully revealing it. It’s the Instagram version of a whisper — intimate, curated, a little mysterious. It’s leaving breadcrumbs instead of dropping the whole loaf. Why It Works It keeps your audience engaged — curiosity = clicks, honey. It protects your peace — no overexposure, no “what happened?” comments if things shift. It builds brand mystique — even if the brand is just you and your boo. Soft ...

Let’s be real. Some days I wake up feeling like I can conquer the world, and other days I wake up like… why is the group chat blowing up before 9am and where is my coffee?! 😅 But what I’ve learned (and I’m still learning, trust me) is that you don’t have to be perfect—you just need to find your rhythm. The glow-up isn’t always a glow-up on the outside. Sometimes, it’s in the little rituals that make you feel grounded and powerful. Whether it’s a swipe of lip gloss, slipping into your favorite linen set, or stepping out to catch the pink sunset over the bay... the magic is in the moments. Here’s how I reset, even when the world feels a little too loud: 🕯️ Slow Morning Vibes – I light a candle, open the windows, and put on a playlist that instantly makes me feel like I’m walking through a boutique in the Keys. 👗 Outfit = Energy – Wearing something soft, breathable, and flattering literally changes how I move through the day. Linen is my foreve...

Welcome to the start of something real 💋 Let’s get into it… Unfiltered feels. Real talk. Late-night thoughts. And maybe a little unsolicited advice. Hey babe — I’m so glad you’re here. If you’ve ever needed a sign to start romanticizing your life, cutting off toxic people, embracing emotional growth, or sending that text even though your friends said not to… this is it. “xoxo, Alexandra” is more than just a blog. It’s a space for the overthinkers, the soft girls, the heart-healers, the drama-reflectors, and everyone who wants to grow while looking cute doing it 💅🏼 Expect stories, soul chats, spicy advice, glow-up goals, heartbreak chronicles, and the occasional rant about red flags 🚩 Whether you're in love, healing, stuck, glowing — there’s something here for you. Stick around. Subscribe. Send it to your bestie. Or just read with a cafecito and hair mask like the baddie-in-progress you are 💖 Let’s talk soon... xoxo, Alexandra 💌